So here it is for those that wanted to know (and anyone else it can help really!).
The wedding day outfit was sourced from:
The quality of the jacket is superb! (Do not buy the cheap ones from India on eBay, they are terrible!!! You Have been warned!!!) Sally at http://www.wested.com also created the pattern for the recreation of Jenny’s dress.
One plain white shirt: One set of steampunk suspenders:
One pair of riding boots (admittedly I went for short boots & chaps as it is half the price!)
One pair of leather gloves: 
One pair of replica Cavalry Breeches from these guys at a cost of:
One helmet kit from: 
1 Tube:
1 of these:
A few cans of this:
And some plastic for the eyes/gauze for the mouth.
A couple of morons 
One amazingly brilliant and well connected best man who gets someone to do this as a wedding gift:
And some decent weather!
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